This morning I went back to reading a fave blog, Why Women Hate Men. (Snaps to BikerPuppy for turning me onto it!) It's pretty much ridiculous singles ads by men trolling the internet. They're actually pretty hilarious, in a train wreck kind of way. Any-who.. I read this one today Real Women and Porn Chicks.
There are some of you who know me in real life, that know I dated this mimbo (male bimbo) fireman who kept turning up like a bad penny. He was like this guy in the ad in this blog! Now, considering how open our society is with sex nowadays, I really don't have any problem with porn. I accept that most men look at it and that doesn't bother me at all. They are visual creatures. However, MOST of those men understand that these chicks are paid actors, just naked. Mimbo, on the other hand, was so obsessed with that world it became reality for him. In fact, now that I think about it, he was exactly like the guy in the blog. Mimbo would complain to me that he'd never be able to find a girl like those girls, who really seemed to enjoy those things. Since I had dumped him, I suggested maybe paying the next girl he dated and maybe she would do those things and act that way... ha ha.
But seriously..... have we become so desensitized that we expect our partners to be this way? I'm not quite sure what the equivalent for women would be, except maybe Girard Butler in his little "300" outfit throwing me around a bit, but it's not the same. Is adult entertainment so accessible in so many places that it's become normal instead of special? It makes me wonder if there are more Mimbo's out there, and if there are, watch out!
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Why are we surprised? Porn effects men the same way drugs do. http://www.salvomag.com/new/articles/salvo13/13hilton.php One wonders if women put their feet down and refused to compete with porn-idols, whether men would get sick of never getting real sex.
I dated someone whose unrealistic expectations of the female form contributed to some really unhealthy behaviors on my part. I'll never do it again. I didn't even realize who much of a hit I took on my subconscious until we broke up. Took months to get my mojo back, but eventually it did with interest! =)
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